Rudyard Kipling"
“When you're left wounded on Afganistan's plains and
the women come out to cut up what remains, Just roll to your rifle
and blow out your brains,
And go to your God like a soldier”
General Douglas MacArthur"
“We are not retreating. We are advancing in another direction.”
“It is fatal to enter any war without the will to win it.” “Old soldiers never die; they just fade away.
“The soldier, above all other people, prays for peace, for he must suffer and be the deepest wounds and scars of war.”
“May God have mercy upon my enemies, because I won't .” “The object of war is not to die for your country but to make the other bastard die for his.
“Nobody ever defended, there is only attack and attack and attack some more.
“It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather we should thank God that such men lived.
The Soldier stood and faced God
Which must always come to pass
He hoped his shoes were shining
Just as bright as his brass
"Step forward you Soldier,
How shall I deal with you?
Have you always turned the other cheek?
To My Church have you been true?"
"No, Lord, I guess I ain't
Because those of us who carry guns
Can't always be a saint."
I've had to work on Sundays
And at times my talk was tough,
And sometimes I've been violent,
Because the world is awfully rough.
But, I never took a penny
That wasn't mine to keep.
Though I worked a lot of overtime
When the bills got just too steep,
The Soldier squared his shoulders and said
And I never passed a cry for help
Though at times I shook with fear,
And sometimes, God forgive me,
I've wept unmanly tears.
I know I don't deserve a place
Among the people here.
They never wanted me around
Except to calm their fears.
If you've a place for me here,
Lord, It needn't be so grand,
I never expected or had too much,
But if you don't, I'll understand."
There was silence all around the throne
Where the saints had often trod
As the Soldier waited quietly,
For the judgment of his God.
"Step forward now, you Soldier,
You've borne your burden well.
Walk peacefully on Heaven's streets,
You've done your time in Hell."
Who pays for Malaysia’s next football appeal, Mr Friend? By Frankie D'Cruz
Saturday, March 21, 2026
Free Malaysia Today : If Harimau Malaya heads back to court after AFC sanctions, Malaysians deserve to know who is footing the bill — and why. Rob Friend says Malaysia will review the Asian Football Confederation’s punishment through the “appropriate legal channels”.
That line demands a straight answer.
Who pays?
Because this is no longer just a football issue. It is a public money problem.
The national team unit that oversees the Harimau Malaya senior team and the Under-23 squad was built with heavy state backing. It received a RM10 million government allocation and private money that lifted the package to RM15 million.
The brief was clear: build a stronger Harimau Malaya, close the gap, do it fast.
Instead, Malaysia now carries match forfeits, a six-point deduction, and an Asian Cup campaign that collapsed before it mattered.
Now we hear talk of lawyers. Again.
A fight few believe we can win
The AFC acted after a Fifa investigation found that documents used to support seven foreign-born players’ eligibility were invalid.
Malaysia went to the Court of Arbitration for Sport (CAS). That process did not clear the case.
Now comes the language of “review”.
The talk of “legal review” may steady a dressing room before a big match.
It signals that the fight is not over.
But messaging cannot replace accountability, and it does not answer the harder question of whether another legal battle makes sense.
Is Malaysia preparing another legal challenge on ground it has already failed to defend?
Is this heading back to CAS under a different label?
If it is, the public deserves clarity.
Who funds it? What is the legal basis? What is the chance of success?
There is a more immediate question.
With key resignations at the Football Association of Malaysia (FAM), who is authorising any legal spend at all?
If public funds are frozen and governance is in flux, where exactly do the mandate and the money come from?
These are not abstract questions. The government froze further funding in November 2025 after the naturalisation scandal broke.
That decision reflected a loss of confidence in how the system was run.
To press on with legal manoeuvres before fixing the underlying failure risks turning a governance problem into a financial one.
This is not resilience. It looks like refusal to face facts.
The structure that refuses to answer
The national team unit was meant to professionalise elite football and operate with clear lines, separate from the Football Association of Malaysia (FAM).
Instead, the lines blurred.
When results come, the structure claims credit. When problems hit, the coach speaks. Senior management fades from view.
Friend now sits at the centre of that criticism. Detractors describe him as a “matchday CEO”.
A leader seen around fixtures, not embedded in daily operations.
By his own account, he is based largely in Canada and travels in for matches.
That model does not fit a national programme under scrutiny.
Friend has said he joined the naturalisation process late and did not drive its early phase. That claim raises more questions than it answers.
If the chief executive was not responsible, who was?
If he was, why did controls fail?
This is not about semantics. It is about authority.
A national setup cannot run on partial roles and blurred accountability. Not when eligibility rules sit at the heart of competition integrity.
Today, the unit looks overstaffed, overpaid and under-explained.
And with qualification hopes gone, its purpose at current cost is hard to justify.
Reset means more than words
Some argue Malaysia escaped lightly.
They point to Timor-Leste, where sanctions were harsher, and question whether the AFC applied its rules evenly.
Some go further. They suggest unequal treatment across associations.
The AFC has explained the difference. Timing. Legal scope. Competition context.
Take that at face value.
Even then, leniency is not a defence. It is a warning.
You do not answer a governance failure by testing the limits of punishment. You mend the system that failed.
That starts with ending this one.
The national team unit, in its current form, has lost its case for existence.
It spent public-backed funds, failed a basic compliance test, and now risks drawing more resources into a legal fight with uncertain footing.
It should not be tweaked. It should not be repackaged.
It should be dismantled.
Return control to the FAM with clear, published responsibility. Who verifies eligibility. Who signs off. Who answers when things go wrong.
Redirect funding to youth development and long-term planning. Rebuild trust where it matters.
And accept the leadership consequence.
Friend cannot front a reboot while defending the structure that produced this failure. If the structure goes, its leadership must follow.
One more point.
If Malaysian football cannot carry out that retune on its own, the next step may not be voluntary.
Fifa normalisation committees exist for situations like this: temporary bodies appointed by the world governing body of football to take over associations in crisis.
They run operations, rewrite governance rules, and organise fresh elections.
They also remove control from local hands.
That route is disruptive. It is a public admission that self-governance has failed.
The longer accountability stalls, the closer that outcome moves from theory to risk in Malaysia.
Malaysian football still has a choice. Fix it now, or lose the right to fix it.